So I've been a little melancholic this last few days, I'm not sure why. My Aunt is on oxygen 24/7 now and Macmillan are going in daily to her so it's just a matter of time. She's not one to dwell and she's definitely one who wouldn't mope, but having an ovarian cyst is suddenly making mortality very large on the horizon.
I don't think my cyst is anything serious, the docs suspect a dermoid cyst (which is pretty awesome but quite gross as they are solid and can contain bits of teeth and hair!) over anything dodgy, although it will be checked so I'm not worried about that - as such but I think it's a mix of that and my aunt that is making it a little squiffy. I have a pre-op on thursday and then as far as I know a date for next week or the week after for the op. I have to have a general and they are going to do a laparoscopy hopefully only keyhole. If it's keyhole it's all good but if it's something tricky they may have to open up my c section scar which would be a pain in the ass as it'd set me back 6 months healing time!
But it's brought home things like making a will and writing down who would have guardianship of the boys should anything happen to me or AL. I don't have that sorted and I think I really should especially as we aren't married. It becomes more complex so it definitely needs writing down. I guess I best get saving then!
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Big Hugs. I've had my Will done so if you want to save some pennies you can just copy the wording from that if you want. I really must get mine signed and witnessed!
Hope all goes well tomorrow xx
did you get yours done at work?
Yep, one of my train buddies does Wills so I made him do mine and Toms :)
I like that hahahahaha! I dunno what to do really as it's so complicated with me and AL not being married and stuff. Makes my head hurt.
Not being married won't make a difference with a Will, not being married and dying without a Will is were it causes issues.
I will email myself in work to remember to sort out my Will and email one of the drafts over to you for a looksey xx
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